If you’re looking for a long-term relationship, it’s crucial to be able to identify someone who isn’t in it for the long haul. Often, these types of people will leave after a short time or even just ghost you completely. They don’t mean any harm by it, as they just aren’t ready to commit to anything serious just yet.
If this sounds like your current escort or past partner, here are some helpful hints on how to spot a relationship:
Relationship Hoppers Are So Unlucky With Love
That person will probably talk about how they’re so unfortunate with love. They’ll tell you stories about how they’ve been rejected or had their heart broken a lot. They may even say that they are just not meant for relationships.
The thing about someone who falls victim to this fallacy is that they don’t realize that their pattern isn’t actually indicative of anything other than themselves being unlucky at the time. Even then, only from an objective point of view, nothing seems to work out if we look at all the possible outcomes.
Relationship Hoppers Don’t Want To Be Trapped
If you’re with someone who says they don’t want to be trapped and are a free spirit, it might mean that they are afraid of being in a committed relationship. This could be because of past experiences or just an innate fear of commitment.
If this person is also saying that they aren’t ready for a serious relationship yet, it may mean that they have not yet worked through these fears and needs more time before getting into another one.
Relationship Hoppers Had A Lot Of Failed Ones
If you suspect that someone is a relationship hopper, ask them about their past relationships. If they’ve had a lot of failed relationships in the past, then it’s likely that they’re just not capable of maintaining healthy ones.
In addition to asking about their past relationships and breakups, look for other signs that your date is prone to hopping from one partner to another. Do they seem like serial daters who are always on the lookout for new partners or hook-ups? If so, and especially if these stories seem overly dramatic, then there’s probably some truth behind it.
They Are Well-Known As Relationship Hoppers
If you have a friend who knows someone who has warned you against them, listen to your friend. They are more likely to be right than wrong and will usually have good reasons for their opinion.
However, do not let this person’s opinion of the other person affect how you form yours. You should make up your own mind about whether or not someone is suitable for you based on how they treat you and act in front of other people.
It can be hard to know what to do if you’re in a relationship with someone who hops around from one partner to another. But if you can identify this early on, it will be easier to know how to deal with the situation.